Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
Episodes
Monday Aug 26, 2024
Killing Kittens Mansion Party UK Swingers Review
Monday Aug 26, 2024
Monday Aug 26, 2024
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
In this episode, we dive deep into the experience of attending the exclusive Killing Kittens Mansion Party in April 2024, a highly anticipated event known for its luxury, sophistication, and sensual ambiance. Did it live up to the hype?
We're spilling all the tea, from the venue's opulence to the social dynamics, costs, and whether we think it was worth the money. Plus, we'll share Darrell's solo play experience and offer tips for those considering attending such events in the future.
Venue & Atmosphere + Attendees & Social Dynamics: Explore the diverse crowd, the black-tie dress code, and how the theme created a classy and sexy environment. We break down the demographics, including the prevalence of newbies and those with experience in the lifestyle.
Planned Events: Overview of the meet-and-mingle activities, ice-breaking events, and the overall flow of the evening.
Bar & Food Services: Insights into the bar offerings, including drink prices and the unfortunate long wait times, plus a note on the absence of food options.
Playrooms: A look at the well-maintained, sensual play spaces
Personal Experiences / Memorable Interactions: Highlights of our interactions with other attendees, sharing some of the most interesting and engaging moments of the night.
Costs & Value for Money: We break down the costs involved, from tickets to accommodation, and assess whether the event offers good value for money. Spoiler: It’s not cheap!
Tips for Future Attendees: Practical advice for those considering attending a Killing Kittens event or similar parties. We cover everything from pre-event preparation and setting boundaries to navigating the night with respect and consent.
Pros & Cons:
Pros: The luxurious setting, sexy ambiance, and high-quality interactions.
Cons: Issues with mask comfort, a DJ playlist that missed the mark
Would We Go Back?
Our honest take on whether we would return to another Killing Kittens event and who we think would benefit most from attending.
Mentioned
Killing Kittens https://www.killingkittens.com/
Killing Kittens Mansion Party Review BLOG https://wanderlustswingers.com/killing-kittens-review-mansion-party/
New Website https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Support Us
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Love, Peace, and Respect, C&D
Killing Kittens Mansion Party Review, UK Swingers Party, Luxury Lifestyle Events, Swingers Mansion Ball, Killing Kittens Event, Luxury Swingers Party, Darrell's Solo Play Experience, Swingers Event Tips, Black Tie Swingers Party, Swingers Event Hygiene, Sophisticated Swingers Party.
Monday Jul 08, 2024
Monday Jul 08, 2024
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Behind the Scenes with Mallory from Casual Swinger: Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Get ready for a fun, sexy, and behind-the-scenes look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover with special guest host Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast! We spent a few wild days in an Airbnb before the event, filled with swimming, drinking, dancing, and karaoke.
In this episode, we dive into:
Pre-Event Adventures: Our crazy time together in the Airbnb.
During the Event: Highlights including the playroom, dancing, blaze the male dancer and Mallory licking Cate's face
Post-Event Wrap-Up: Packing up and funny stories from the process.
Collaboration and Support: How we support and promote each other’s events around the world.
Upcoming Events: A sneak peek into the Miami 2025 event and the Casual Swinger Week in March/April 2025 where I’ll be a guest host.
Join us for an entertaining and informative episode filled with personal stories, laughter, and exciting event details!
Mentioned
Upcoming Events https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover 2025 https://libertineevents.com/miami/
Jamaica Casual Swinger Week 2025: https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2
Support Us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We’d love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month for exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us on Patreon.
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters, and swinging lifestyle resources: Swinging Down Under.
Love, Peace, and Respect, C&D
Friday Jun 21, 2024
Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover: Behind the Scenes and Beyond
Friday Jun 21, 2024
Friday Jun 21, 2024
Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover: Behind the Scenes and Beyond
Get ready for an inside look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover! Join us as we share the excitement, fun, and unique experiences from this unforgettable event. We start with an overview of what made the Miami takeover special, followed by a break to tell a sexy story from the event, and wrap up with our top tips for newcomers and future events.
In this episode, we dive into the planning and logistics, the vibrant atmosphere, and the standout fashion and activities. Plus, hear personal stories and memorable moments that will give you a true taste of the event.
Mentioned
Libertine Events Swingers Hotel Takeovers https://libertineevents.com/
Global Swingers Events 2024 + 2025 https://www.wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
bed hoppers Podcast https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/
Support Us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We’d love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month for exclusive content and live podcasts https://www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters, and swinging lifestyle resources https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Love, Peace, and Respect,
C&D
Monday May 06, 2024
DoxyPEP Sti Prevention - Swingers Health Vol 7
Monday May 06, 2024
Monday May 06, 2024
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
DoxyPEP STI Prevention - Swingers Health Vol 7
In this episode of Swingers Health, we delve into the world of sexual health and explore a groundbreaking method for preventing sexually transmitted infections (STIs) within the non-monogamous community: DoxyPEP. Join us as we unravel the science behind DoxyPEP, its application as a post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP), and its implications for modern sexual health practices.
What is DoxyPEP?
DoxyPEP, short for doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis, is a revolutionary approach to STI prevention. Our discussion begins with a comprehensive overview of DoxyPEP's mechanism of action and its role as a PEP for STIs.
We explore the scenarios where DoxyPEP becomes a valuable tool in preventing STIs, considering both risks and benefits. Is bareback penetration play the only form of exposure? Our guest expert Robert sheds light on this critical question.
Treatment & why should we use it?
Learn about the recommended treatment protocol for DoxyPEP, including dosage, timing, and considerations for usage. We also explore the possibility of splitting a subscription between partners.
We discuss potential side effects of DoxyPEP and how users can balance its benefits with risks like antibiotic resistance and pH imbalance. Should vulva owners take preventative measures to reduce the risk of thrush?
Should you use DoxyPEP?
At the end of the day, it's essential to seek medical advice from licensed providers tailored to your specific medical history. Visit shamelesscare.com to schedule a consultation with a medical professional.
Stay informed, stay safe, and prioritize your sexual health in non-monogamous relationships. Tune in to Swingers Health for more insightful discussions on navigating the complexities of sexual wellness.
Episode Links
Shameless Care; Swingers Lifestyle Medical Support STi Testing + ED medication https://shamelesscare.com/
Use code Libertine to get $30 USD off
DoxyPEP at Shameless Care https://shamelesscare.com/preventative-treatments/
Dr Stoehr https://www.nurturewomenshealth.com/provider/angela-r-stoehr-md-facog
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
Wednesday May 01, 2024
Let's Get Spicy Swingers Island Takeover Chat BONUS EP
Wednesday May 01, 2024
Wednesday May 01, 2024
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Let's Get Spicy
Welcome to a Bonus Episode of the Wanderlust Swingers Podcast featuring our friends Mr and Mrs H from the bed hoppers Podcast in the UK.
Spicy Island Takeover by Spicy Match
We're heading to the Spicy Match Swingers Island takeover in July called Spicy Island for week 2 of their takeover. We have been before but this is Mr and Mrs H first time in Croatia, first time at a swingers event this size and first time at a Spicy Match takeover.
We run through some questions with them, some advice, talk about preparation and what to expect.
How many people they'll play with in a day...
Darrell wants all the tea on the number of people that they want to play with in a day, Cate gives some advice on making sure you mingle (in it to win it style) and we discuss what they most fear and what they're most excited about.
Join us on Spicy Island, Swingers Island takeover for week 2
Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine
Use our code above for a 10% discount and join our tribe!
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
Monday Apr 22, 2024
Pants On / Off Swinger Friends: The Pros and Cons
Monday Apr 22, 2024
Monday Apr 22, 2024
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swinger Friends
In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle.
Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros
Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy.
Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partners and friends.
Experience heightened sexual pleasure through the comfort and familiarity of established relationships.
Pants On / Off Friendships The Cons
Navigate potential emotional complexities and jealousy within friendships and romantic relationships.
Struggle with blurred boundaries and the risk of misunderstanding or miscommunication.
Manage the delicate balance between maintaining friendships and managing expectations in a swinging context.
Is the Swingers Lifestyle Approach for you?
Consider your own desires, boundaries, and comfort levels when contemplating this unique approach.
Discover whether you thrive in an environment of openness, trust, and shared exploration.
Evaluate whether you and your partner(s) are equipped to navigate the challenges and rewards of Pants On / Off Swinger Friendships.
Join us as we dissect the nuances of this intriguing relationship dynamic and offer insights into who might find it fulfilling and who might prefer to steer clear.
Mentioned
Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
Thursday Mar 28, 2024
Swingers Date + Foursome in Amsterdam
Thursday Mar 28, 2024
Thursday Mar 28, 2024
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Date Ideas
Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates.
In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzling swingers' adventures.
Swingers Foursome Play
In the middle of our date episode and the date that sparked this entire conversation is our Swingers Foursome Date in Amsterdam that ended in a fun, flirty play session in their fancy hotel.
Cate talks about how comfortable she was with her body and why her jaw is now sore. We talk about being the perfect sexual wing person and why you really need to up your game when it comes to physical play barriers.
Curious about swingers foursomes and couple swaps? Let's chat.
Mentioned
Bar Rouge Amsterdam https://www.barrouge.nl/
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
Friday Mar 08, 2024
Swingers Mental Health - Swingers Health Vol 6 - Part 1
Friday Mar 08, 2024
Friday Mar 08, 2024
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Health Vol 6 - Mental Health
The Swingers Lifestyle is exciting, there are all these fun parties, costumes and new emotions to play with. But there is also the reality that with these new emotions and new experiences we need to consider what impact this might have on us, our primary relationship and the other people. In today's epsiode we're diving into the fascinating world of nonmonogamy,we’re going to dig into communication, boundaries, conflict resolution and more. She wants something, he doesn’t… how the f**k do we move forward?!
Swingers Communication
You know what the cliché is .. communicate, communicate, communicate
Yeah ok but… really? Let’s get into it.
What are the intricacies of effective communication, setting boundaries, and maintaining open and honest conversations.
Resentment in the Swingers Lifestyle
Let’s shift our focus to addressing the inevitable challenges in the swingers lifestyle. How do we deal with resentment and misunderstandings. We’re going to explore common sources of tension, strategies for conflict resolution, and tips for fostering a positive relationship environment
Links
Expansive Connection website https://expansiveconnection.com/enm
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/expansive.connection.coaching
Twitter https://twitter.com/expanconnect
Pursue and Withdraw cycle https://drkimblackham.com/understanding-the-pursue-withdraw-cycle
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
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