Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
Episodes
Monday Mar 14, 2022
Swinger Questions Quickie Vol 2
Monday Mar 14, 2022
Monday Mar 14, 2022
Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle?
In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, welcome to Volume 2 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode.
Swinger Questions
Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 2 episode.
Swinger Hotel Takeovers, what room type?
How much is too much alcohol?
My beard smells like pussy
I'll be more attracted to you when you lose weight
Slut shamed for kissing a girl, am I the asshole?
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
Thursday Feb 24, 2022
How to Host a Sex Party
Thursday Feb 24, 2022
Thursday Feb 24, 2022
Have you ever considered hosting a sex party?
Hosting a Sex Party
A lot of effort and thought goes into hosting a sex party, the location, the right mix of people, what theme to have, drinks / food / music and more.
In this episode we use the Swingers Help Wicked Guide to Hosting Sex Parties as our base, we explore the chapters in the guide and talk through how we would approach hosting a sex party or swingers house party.
We share your thoughts on what the most important thing is about sex parties (spoiler, it's the people) and then we share a quick story on a swingers house party where we stopped play and left.
Links and Resources used in this episode
The Wicked Guide to Hosting Sex Parties https://swingershelp.com/wicked-guide-to-hosting-sex-parties/
Find Swingers Help on Twitter https://twitter.com/swingershelp
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
Monday Feb 14, 2022
Swinging In Nashville
Monday Feb 14, 2022
Monday Feb 14, 2022
Wanna know more about Swinging in Nashville?
Swinging In Nashville
Cate recently took a trip to Palm Springs and Nashville in a mix of business and pleasure. During the Nashville trip Cate visited Red Room Swingers Club Nashville (previously The Theater Group), this is the newest lifestyle / swingers club in Nashville.
In this episode Cate shares some news about where they are moving to next, what happened during her trip, a club review of Red Room Swingers Club Nashville and some litrotica all about female glory holes.
Links and Resources used in this episode
Red Room Swingers Club Nashville https://www.redroomnashville.com/
Andi from Double Date Nation https://doubledatenation.com/
Check out the Female Glory Hole story from Litrotica here https://www.literotica.com/s/female-glory-hole
Cate's TikTok Account https://www.tiktok.com/@swingingdownunder
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
Friday Jan 28, 2022
We Broke Our #1 Swinging Rule
Friday Jan 28, 2022
Friday Jan 28, 2022
Have you ever broken a rule in the Swinging Lifestyle? We did and today we share all about it.
Swinging Rules
The lifestyle is full of rules & boundaries, we put them there more often than not to safeguard our relationship but what happens when you break a rule? Today we’re talking about breaking our #1 swinging rule, we’re going to share the ups and downs, the emotional discussion afterwards and what it means for us moving forward.
We share some exclusive patreon content that we recorded within days after the rule was broken.
Has your partner broken a rule?
We also get Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching to share some insight into how to move past a rule. Some of the triggers we might have and some support on how to work through the emotions after you or your spouse has broken the rule. Check out Catherine and the entire team at Expansive Connection here https://www.expansiveconnection.com/cnm
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
Wednesday Jan 12, 2022
Cuckold with Venus Cuckoldress
Wednesday Jan 12, 2022
Wednesday Jan 12, 2022
Cuckold is a form of NonMonogamy and under the big umbrella of NonMonogamy but what is it really?
Cuckold
In today's episode we interview the amazing Venus Cuckoldress from the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast as well as the CEO and creator of Venus Connections a match making site just for people interested in cuckold
Join us for a deeper look into the world of cuckold from people who are living the lifestyle!
After our interview with Venus we talk with Travis who identifies as a cuck, Travis takes us through how he joined the cuckold world and gives some tips for other men who want to join including how they should be approaching women
This episode is sponsored by Venus Connections
Cuckold Resources + What is Cuckolding
Below you'll find a ton of resources to learn more about Cuckolding, check out these fabulous content creators, blogs + podcasts.
Venus Cuckoldress Website https://venuscuckoldress.com/
Venus Connections https://venusconnections.com/
Use code CONNECTME31 for 30% off joining
The Health Benefits of Cuckolding https://venuscuckoldress.com/guest-post-health-benefits-of-cuckolding/
Cuckoldress Scarlet https://cuckoldressscarlet.com/
Crystal Welsh https://www.crystalwelch.com/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
Tuesday Dec 28, 2021
Swinger Questions Quickie Vol 1
Tuesday Dec 28, 2021
Tuesday Dec 28, 2021
Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle?
In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, we're calling this Volume 1 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode.
Swinger Questions
Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 1 episode.
Implied consent at Cap D'Agde and Dark Playrooms
Porn Theatres in Swingers Clubs
Condom use on Swinger profiles
Which Swinger pays for the hotel for play?
Swinger couples reaching out after parties for play dates
Should we go to a Swingers Party on New Years for our first club visit?
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
Monday Dec 20, 2021
Sexual Fantasy & Object of Desire
Monday Dec 20, 2021
Monday Dec 20, 2021
Have you ever shared your sexual fantasies with your partner? What if your sexual fantasy is narcissistic or you're a bit ashamed of it.
Sexual Fantasy
In this episode Cate shares a new sexual fantasy with Darrell and they talk about what makes a women feel desired, how this might impact flirting at swinging lifestyle events & why we change ourselves in sexual fantasies.
We talk through the fantasy and reveal how it makes Cate feel, we follow up with some of your responses to your own sexual fantasies an if you feel guilt. We talk through what the Object of Desire Affirmation is and why it might be the key to flirting.
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Episode References and Links
Object of Desire Affirmation
Dr Justin Lehmiller; How we see ourselves in sexual fantasies
Erotic BluePrint Quiz by sexologist Jaiya
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
Wednesday Dec 01, 2021
Podcast-A-Palooza Encore Swingers Event Recap
Wednesday Dec 01, 2021
Wednesday Dec 01, 2021
Cate goes Solo and talks about Podcast-A-Palooza Encore Dallas in a PCAP Recap Episode
What are the highlights and lowlights of a Swingers Event?
Firstly we start off with a cultural tid bit about prostitution in Turkey as Cate gets caught in a 24 hour layover in the Istanbul airport.
Then get ready for the highlights and lowlights of Podcast-A-Palooza Encore held in Dallas, Texas this November 2021. This was a 3 night 4 day full hotel takeover with 76 couples on site and 5 podcast hosts.
Cate shares her top highlights which include Mankini's, Shibari, Being Witty and why you NEED to hire external security at the swingers club.
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.
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