Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Swinger Questions Quickie Vol 1

Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle? 
In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, we're calling this Volume 1 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode.
Swinger Questions
Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 1 episode.  
Implied consent at Cap D'Agde and Dark Playrooms
Porn Theatres in Swingers Clubs
Condom use on Swinger profiles
Which Swinger pays for the hotel for play?
Swinger couples reaching out after parties for play dates
Should we go to a Swingers Party on New Years for our first club visit? 
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Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Sexual Fantasy & Object of Desire

Have you ever shared your sexual fantasies with your partner? What if your sexual fantasy is narcissistic or you're a bit ashamed of it.
Sexual Fantasy
In this episode Cate shares a new sexual fantasy with Darrell and they talk about what makes a women feel desired, how this might impact flirting at swinging lifestyle events & why we change ourselves in sexual fantasies. 
We talk through the fantasy and reveal how it makes Cate feel, we follow up with some of your responses to your own sexual fantasies an if you feel guilt. We talk through what the Object of Desire Affirmation is and why it might be the key to flirting.
Support us
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Episode References and Links 
Object of Desire Affirmation 
Dr Justin Lehmiller; How we see ourselves in sexual fantasies
Erotic BluePrint Quiz by sexologist Jaiya
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Podcast-A-Palooza Encore Swingers Event Recap

Cate goes Solo and talks about Podcast-A-Palooza Encore Dallas in a PCAP Recap Episode 
What are the highlights and lowlights of a Swingers Event?
Firstly we start off with a cultural tid bit about prostitution in Turkey as Cate gets caught in a 24 hour layover in the Istanbul airport. 
Then get ready for the highlights and lowlights of Podcast-A-Palooza Encore held in Dallas, Texas this November 2021. This was a 3 night 4 day full hotel takeover with 76 couples on site and 5 podcast hosts. 
Cate shares her top highlights which include Mankini's, Shibari, Being Witty and why you NEED to hire external security at the swingers club. 
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

We‘re Just Not That Into You

There are certain things that exist in sex, sexuality and the swinging lifestyle that just don’t make me wanna go hmmmmmm….. things that are supposed to be sexy but I’m just not that into it.
Things that are supposed to be sexy but just... aren't
We bust on into some of the things in the swinging lifestyle that are supposed to be sexy, nude sushi ladies, porn in swingers clubs, food related things. We aren't yucking anyone's yum here, you do you but just remember that your turn on or 'sexy' might be someone else's turn off so play fairly.
Communication is the key to all these things and this is just another example of why it's important to share what gets you HOT or gets you NOT.
Firstly we get into some cultural tid bits about Texas and ZZ Top.. Cate still has no idea who this person / person / top hat wearing individual is.
We finish up by sharing some of your thoughts about what isn't that hot in the swinging lifestyle. 
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Swinging Women Have No Type

Why is it that Swinging Women have no type? Why are women so picky when it comes to choosing partners to swing / swap with?
Swinging Women Have No Type
It is extremely hard to be the right kind of wing person for your significant other when you don’t know their TYPE. Do women actually have a type or is it really all in the personality, in today’s episode we’re going to explore if men and women have a type, what you said about your type and then share OUR types.
We share our personal types, the types you told us you have and finish off with a little task for you to complete.
Firstly we get into some cultural tid bits for Paris and then share our review of the Paris Swingers club we attended Le Mask and why we chose to visit that over the Paris Swinger Club Les Chandelles 
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Cap D‘Agde Swingers Vacation Part 2

Cap D'Agde is a nudist village in the south of France and home to some of the largest swingers vacations and swingers events in the world. Welcome to part 2 of our swingers vacation at Cap D'Agde
Cap D'Agde
Part 2 is here! If you haven't yet listened to part 1 of our Cap D'Agde experience make sure you head on over and listen.
In this next part we talk about our final few days of our swingers vacation, then we run through some more tips to surviving Cap D'Agde and finally wrap up the episode with who we think this swingers vacation is for and most importantly, who we don't think it's for. 
We spill the tea on Cap D'Agde and hope to educate, titillate or astonish you in our adventures. 
Listen to part 1 
https://swingingdownunder.podbean.com/e/cap-d-agde-nudist-village/ 
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us in Dallas November 5-8th 2021 https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Cap D‘Agde Nudist Village

Cap D'Agde Nudist Village & Swinger Mecca has been an unknown destination for too long. We peel back the real Cap D'Agde in our 2 part series 
Cap D'Agde
If you've ever been curious what Cap D'Agde is about or how to find likeminded swingers couples at this predominantly nudist village we're going to walk you through how. 
Join us in our 2 part series talking about our recent experience at the famous Cap D'Agde takeover by SpicyMatch.com, we dig in and share our first few days on site, navigating this new adventure and set the scene for the next very juicy part coming soon.
We spill the tea on Cap D'Agde and hope to educate, titillate or astonish you in our adventures. 
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us in Dallas November 5-8th 2021 https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Owning Your Big O w/ Monogamish Marriage

Do you own your orgasm? Monogamish Marriage helps us dissect how to own your orgasm, close the orgasm gap and be more vocal with your sexual desires and interests.
Guest Monogamish Marriage 
We're joined by Kate & Liam of the Monogamish Marriage Blog, a couple based in Toronto with a swinging lifestyle blog. They share their journey and talk candidly about the orgasm gap that exists in their lifestyle journey and why it might not be such a bad thing. Kate is officially owning her orgasm and we share her personal journey on the episode. 
They share their tips on how they've grown in the past few years and how they navigate potentially awkward conversations. 
Guest Jeff Abraham 
We're then joined by the CEO of sexual wellness company Promescent and we get clinical about the use of Promescent delay sprays in the swinging lifestyle and how they can help you with sexual intimacy. 
Grab an order of Promescent delay spray or any of their other products and score 15% off, head to our website for links https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingerswebsites/ 
 
Episode Resources
Monogamish Marriage Blog - https://themonogamishmarriage.com/  
Monogamish Marriage Twitter - https://twitter.com/Monogamish1  
Monogamish Marriage Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/themonogamishmarriage 
She Comes First (Dr Ian Kerner)  - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060538260/ 
Come as you are (Dr Emily Nagoski) - https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1982165316?tag=simonsayscom 
Tell me what you want (Dr Justin Lehmiller) - https://www.lehmiller.com/tell-me-what-you-want
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us in Dallas November 5-8th 2021 https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ 
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/ 
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.